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Foreplay Wheel for Couples

Take turns spinning for intimate moments together. Preview the prompts, remove anything you do not want, and change or stop any result at any time.

Slow DanceHand RubShoulderPlaylistMemoryQuestionsLong HugLetter TimeCozy RestFuture IdeaTea RitualPhoto ShareBreathComfortGratitudeScentStoryEvening

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A Slow Dance

Put on a song you both enjoy and ask whether your partner would like to slow dance, choosing the distance together.

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Tender · Unhurried

  • A Slow Dance

    Put on a song you both enjoy and ask whether your partner would like to slow dance, choosing the distance together.

  • A Hand Massage

    Ask permission to massage your partner’s hands for several minutes, inviting feedback about pressure and pace.

  • Shoulder Ease

    Ask whether your partner would enjoy several minutes of gentle shoulder or upper-back massage, then follow their preferences for pressure and pace.

  • Build a Shared Playlist

    Take turns adding songs that remind you of comfort, joy, or each other, then listen without rushing.

  • A Memory Walk

    Take a relaxed walk or sit together while each of you tells the story of a favorite day you shared.

  • Kind Questions

    Ask each other a few gentle questions about what has felt good lately and what support would feel meaningful.

  • A Long Hug

    Ask whether a longer hug would be welcome, and remain together only for as long as both of you enjoy it.

  • Letter Time

    Write a short letter about something you value in the relationship, then decide together whether to exchange it.

  • Cozy Rest Together

    Make a comfortable spot with blankets and spend a few minutes resting side by side with no agenda.

  • A Future Idea

    Talk about one pleasant future outing or quiet ritual you would both enjoy planning.

  • A Tea Ritual

    Prepare a warm drink together, noticing each small step and sharing the first few sips without screens.

  • A Photo Share

    Choose a few favorite photos and take turns explaining why each one matters to you.

  • A Breath Pause

    Sit close if both of you want to, then spend five calm minutes breathing at a pace that feels natural to each of you.

  • A Comfort Show

    Pick a familiar show or film, agree on a cozy setup, and make space for conversation as you watch.

  • A Gratitude List

    Make a short list of things you appreciate about this season of your life together, then decide whether to read it aloud, exchange it privately, or keep it.

  • A Relaxing Room

    Create a restful atmosphere with lighting or a favorite scent, checking that both partners like the choice.

  • A Gentle Story

    Read a short poem or comforting passage to one another, pausing whenever either of you wants to talk.

  • A Gentle Evening Close

    End the moment by asking what each of you would like to carry into the rest of the night.

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  1. Choose the mood and review the prompts.
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FAQ

Can we see the prompts before spinning?

Yes. Open “View all prompts” to review every prompt in the selected mood and game length before you spin.

Can we remove prompts from the wheel?

Yes. You can remove prompts for the current game and restore the full set whenever you want.

Can we add our own ideas?

Yes. You can build a wheel with your own prompts.

Do we need an app to play?

No. The Foreplay Wheel works directly in a modern browser on a phone, tablet, or computer.